mental wellness holiday survival

May 8th, 2025

by Leanne Toews | Coastality

This resource article is intended to be for informational purposes only. Any clinical information or advice contained in this article is not intended as a thorough, in-depth delivery of clinical service and does not replace what a clinician would provide during a session in a regular format, and should not be used to form a diagnosis or determine medication usages or frequencies that a physician or other mental health professional would provide. If you or someone you know are facing a crisis situation, please call the BC Crisis Centre at +1.800.784.2433 (1-800-SUICIDE) or visit their website, call 911 or your local emergency line, or visit the nearest emergency room.

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May marks Mental Health Awareness Month in Canada, a national opportunity to reflect on the importance of emotional, psychological, and social well-being.

At Coastality, we intentionally made the decision to embrace a slightly different term – mental wellness. Language matters, and how we speak about emotional balance and psychological resilience shapes how we relate to it in our daily lives. Mental wellness, to us, represents a more well-rounded, empowering, and forward-thinking way to connect with the internal world we all navigate.

“Mental health” often implies an underlying problem that needs to be treated.

It can carry an unconscious weight of stigma, rooted in the notion that help is only required when we are unwell or broken. That’s not how we see it. Mental wellness is an ongoing practice, not a crisis response. It is the gentle yet powerful act of tending to your emotional landscape with the same care and intention that you bring to physical wellness. It’s not about reacting to what’s wrong; it’s about building what’s strong.

During the month of May, the national spotlight on mental wellness invites reflection, education, and meaningful conversation across Canada (and the world). But the conversation doesn’t end when the calendar turns. Our emotional wellbeing requires daily attention, much like our physical health. This is why Coastality encourages individuals (and couples and families!) to connect with clinical counselling and coaching services not when things are falling apart, but when life is going smoothly. When we are thriving, we are actually most receptive to growth. The idea that support is only for those in crisis limits the incredible potential of what skilled support can offer.

Working with a qualified professional through clinical counselling and coaching offers a confidential, compassionate space where you can explore your strengths, values, goals, and inner narrative. While many people turn to counselling and coaching during times of grief, anxiety, or major life transitions, those are only a few of the doors into what is a far broader and richer practice. In reality, clinical counselling and coaching can be most transformative when used proactively – as a tool for cultivating deeper self-awareness, emotional regulation, and a more fulfilling connection to yourself and others.

Investing in the power of you.

Investing in mental wellness while life is “good” means you’re not waiting for burnout, disconnection, or overwhelm to define your next move. Instead, you’re anchoring your inner foundation before the waves hit. You’re learning to identify emotions before they spiral, to communicate more clearly, and to move through life with intention. You’re resourcing yourself with strategies and insight that reinforce resilience and authenticity. This proactive approach supports not just personal growth, but healthier communities, families, and workplaces.

At Coastality, we recognize that the coastal rhythms of British Columbia – its breathtaking nature, varied seasons, and unique lifestyles – mirror the rhythms within us. Like tides, our emotional states ebb and flow. We are not meant to be emotionally static. But with the right support, we can learn how to navigate those tides with grace. Mental wellness is not a fixed destination, but a lived process. Whether you’re navigating the excitement of a new chapter, or simply seeking to feel more grounded, curious, or aligned, this kind of support is for you.

We are particularly proud to join many on their journey to greater mental wellness throughout British Columbia, offering services designed to support wellness in a meaningful and relatable way. Our professionals are trained to “meet you where you are” – with curiosity, skill, and respect. Whether you are exploring career fulfillment, deepening relationships, building boundaries, or just looking for more clarity in your internal (or external) world, clinical counselling and coaching can help illuminate your path.

While there are many informal ways to support your mental wellness, such as connecting with nature, engaging in creative activities, or nurturing relationships, working with a trained professional brings a layer of insight and intentionality that is difficult to replicate on your own. It’s not about “fixing” anything; it’s about investing in a relationship where you can reflect honestly and grow intentionally.

The possibilities are endless!

This May (and moving forward!), we invite you to take a moment not to evaluate what’s wrong, but to consider what’s possible. What would it look like to thrive, rather than just survive? What stories do you tell yourself about needing to “deserve” support? How would your life shift if you allowed yourself that space while things were already going well?

You don’t need to have a “reason” to pursue support. You are the reason. Your hopes, your values, and your vision for the future are all worthy of exploration. And the earlier you start, the more spacious your journey becomes.

What’s the takeaway?

Mental wellness is a human right and a lifelong journey. It is not a checkbox to complete, but instead a practice of turning inward with kindness, honesty, and intention. And like any meaningful practice, it flourishes with guidance, consistency, and compassion.

At Coastality, we believe that investing in your emotional wellness is one of the most courageous and life-affirming choices you can make. We honour the strength it takes to ask for support not as a last resort, but as a natural part of living well. This May, and every month, we invite you to redefine what emotional strength looks like, and to see wellness not as a fix, but as a foundation.

Whether you’re riding a high tide or pausing at low ebb, your mental wellness matters. It’s time to celebrate it, cultivate it, and live it.

Ready to join us on a journey to greater mental wellness? Please don’t hesitate to get in touch! Our intake process is simple and quick – simply fill out the contact form and a member of our team will be in touch within 24 hours for a brief phone call, or book your own complimentary phone or online chat with any of our clinicians to get things started!